Law 1: It starts with a vision for your life (vision).
- The takeaway: Careers and jobs are delivery devices for the kind of life you hope to lead. You begin by creating a picture of desired lifestyle and making sure your reinvention plans are not infected with myths and fantasies.
- Watch out for: Forgetting to give yourself a permission slip to pursue a different and bigger life
- The takeaway: Your body is a more reliable indicator than your intellect of what you truly want or don't want.
- Watch out for: Your intellect shouting down or drowning out your body's messages.
- The takeaway: Making excuses is a habit motivated by fear, allowing you to avoid or delay the pain of change. To manage your fears and take action in spite of them, you must give up your excuses.
- Watch out for: Believing your excuses do deeply that they become a stumbling block to your progress.
- The takeaway: Exploring the road less traveled forces you to become more creative about your career options.
- Watch out for: The uninvited committee members of your mind (or in real life) who insist that you stay inside the box they've always known you in.
- The takeaway: Your tools are your skills and talents. Many of the same tools you used to build your current or previous career can be used in building a new one.
- Watch out for: The gap between the tools you have and the new ones you'll need.
- The takeaway: Your reinvention strategy plans benefit from the help of a Reinvention Board, a coterie of advisors that acts as a resource for contacts. problem-solving, brainstorming. and emotional support.
- Watch out for: Becoming the Lone Ranger by being unwilling or too proud to ask for help.
- The takeaway: Natives can provide useful information on the pros and cons of your target industry, along with an invaluable insider's feel of what it is actually like to work there on a daily basis.
- Watch out for: Burnouts who drown you in negativity and saboteurs with hidden agendas who deliberately steer you wrong.
- The takeaways: Fitting in when you travel to the land of your new industry requires learning the language on two levels - verbal (words, phrases) and nonverbal (cultural expectations).
- Watch out for: Going to the extreme of perfectionism or minimizing the importance of learning a new language.
- The takeaways: The reinvention process has its own timeline; let it set the pace. You can control the amount of effort you put in, but you cannot control when the opportunity shows up. Your role here isn't to control but to be ready.
- Watch out for: Unrealistic expectations that skew your perspective and cause you to feel like a failure.
- The takeaway: When you cultivate your "inner knowing" belief in yourself, and faith in the possibility of attaining your goals, others will be drawn to you.
- Watch out for: Pessimism about your changes masquerading as "reality."
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